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Post by JS84 on Mar 17, 2024 8:20:36 GMT -5
Keep your heads up gentlemen. Some of our toughest challenges lie ahead
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Post by ferris1248 on Mar 17, 2024 8:26:37 GMT -5
Lost a lot of friends over the last 18 months. It's just where we are in life.
It's hard to find a woman who will put up with your low down ways.
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Post by billybob on Mar 17, 2024 8:49:27 GMT -5
My wife is not doing great. I hope I live longer than her so I can take care of her. She would struggle without me here and may have to go to some kind of assisted living
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Post by jcbcpa on Mar 17, 2024 9:13:34 GMT -5
My thoughts are with you and your wives Mackeral and anumber1. Best wishes to you all. I don't know what I'd do without mine either.
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Post by richm on Mar 17, 2024 9:17:23 GMT -5
We lost mom little less than 2 yrs ago and my sis and i take turns being there for dad. They were married 61 yrs.
A tough “row to hoe”. Prayers for those on the path.
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Post by illinoisfisherman on Mar 17, 2024 10:29:30 GMT -5
It is scary. My Mrs has about 5 potentially fatal medical issues. I’m on needles and pins constantly.
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Post by mackeralsnatcher on Mar 17, 2024 11:13:12 GMT -5
Unfortunately I feel I'm on the path to losing mine. Sucks big time. Worse part is the "what the fuck am I gonna do without her" me too. I know Art. We have been thru the wringer as of late and it really sucks. My best to you and cecelia.
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Post by JS84 on Mar 17, 2024 11:54:29 GMT -5
I sit here reading all of the posts and I can't help but be thankful. Tomorrow is our 7th anniversary and I feel blessed every day that I married my best friend. She not only makes me better but makes me want to be better. I can't even begin to imagine the memories we'll have amassed when the final scene plays. My sincere blessings to all of you in these hard times.
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Post by restlessnative on Mar 17, 2024 14:49:39 GMT -5
Hate to hear all this. My aunt passed away yesterday and I know it is going to be hard on my uncle.
Hard to believe it’s been 18 years since I lost my brother and 12 dad. Mom is a tough bird but they were rough losses. Wife is a cancer survivor but full recovery and cancer free. Went through all that in our 20s and 30s, hopefully don’t have to again as they were all tough.
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Post by One Man Gang on Mar 17, 2024 16:05:01 GMT -5
My wife is a cancer survivor. I too have gone through the anxiety and anguish that comes with such uncertainty. Still having two younger ones at home and getting this kind of news was a earth stopping moment for me.
I couldn't imagine pressing forward without her and I gratefully pray every day for her continued well being. Prayers for all of you out there with ailing wives and life partners. None of us really know how good we have it, until we don't.
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Post by stc1993 on Mar 17, 2024 23:07:28 GMT -5
Mines in the hospital too. When they ran blood tests her heart and kidney enzymes were high. They don't know what's causing it. To top it off her sister is 4 doors away from her. She has terminal colon cancer. They had just did exploritory surgery on her last week and took out her appendix and part of the intestines and colon. They gave her a month to live. The week before that my stepdaughter had another heart attack. They put another stent in her going to the right atrium. When it rains it pours lately.
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Post by slough on Mar 18, 2024 7:34:27 GMT -5
Prayers to all
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Post by swampdog on Mar 18, 2024 12:54:09 GMT -5
Stc it seems wrong to like your post, but it’s more as a I like you shared this heartache. I’ve sent a prayer snd good thoughts your way. Seems if we’re living, these health issues have a way of ruining some of our days. I wish you strength and better days for your loved ones.
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Post by anumber1 on Mar 18, 2024 14:31:00 GMT -5
prayers for all of y'all and your spouses.
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Post by conchydong on Mar 18, 2024 14:44:23 GMT -5
Don’t even want to think about it. Almost all my planning is to set her up if I pass away before she does. If she passes away before I do, God forbid, I really didn’t plan on that but I guess I would just have to cross that bridge when the time comes.
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