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Post by TRTerror on Mar 25, 2024 18:00:08 GMT -5
Now as some of you know I've recently hooked up with a sex manic widow over in Tally.
She treats me like a King , got plenty of money and spends it on me often , Pays for dinners and lunches ect , buys me little things..
Very pleasant to talk to , Nice big new house , Has a dang good income from various sources. More Tang that I can handle.
Sounds Great don't it..
Problem one is she wants some sort of Commitment. Like NOW.
She's already bought me a Ring that matches hers. Wants to take Together pictures and frame them to put on the wall.
I've only known her for about 4 months but she's all over me with this Lifetime stuff.
She's lived alone for like 10 years and I'm guessing she's afraid of being alone again.
Problem 2...and it,s a Biggie...I'm just not attracted to her.
She's 50 or more pounds overweight , dresses clean but just T shirts and Jeans when we go out , Think Plain Jane.
I'm use to Latina Hot Stuff that turns heads when she walks into the room.
This Gal nobody even looks her way when she walks anywhere.
Boring...
I left her house last week to come home for a few days and 2 days later she's at my door with her suitcase....Damm.
Went home yesterday and already Texted me today...I Miss you , Do you Miss me..WTF.
I'm 68 . She's 66...Question..Do I ride the Pony and forget looking for and Dating some Gal more close to what I want or do I just stick with dumpy..
Hard being a Viking Stud at any age men...
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Post by conchydong on Mar 25, 2024 18:19:14 GMT -5
No one wants to be old and not have a companion if they had a choice. There is more to life than just sex or how "hot" your significant other is when you are in your final quarter. That's just my opinion. If "dumpy" is a good person than I wouldn't trade her in for a younger gold digger unless you have plenty of gold to throw away.
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Post by Zif on Mar 25, 2024 18:20:22 GMT -5
First, buy her a sexy outfit 2 sizes too small then tell her to call you when it fits. Then spray tan her ass up like an Earl Shibe paint job. The rest is easy, slam a stiff drink or three and blissfully bang away into the sunset.
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Post by illinoisfisherman on Mar 25, 2024 18:28:45 GMT -5
I sense that beneath the tough shell you have you are a soft hearted person inside. It’s tough to let someone down easily if you decide to move on.
Perhaps you just have to tell her that you like her but you need a little time. Create a space between her and you for a while so you can get your mind around it.
Good luck sir.
I remember the feelings. When I settled down with my Mrs I had to let another go that was really nice. It was hard to do for sure.
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Post by TRTerror on Mar 25, 2024 18:59:33 GMT -5
I'd hate to Hurt her..She's a really nice Gal.
I've told her repeatly that I lived with my late wife for 12 years until I married her..What's the freakin rush.
Seems to sail right on by her.
I'm conflicted but conchys comment about ..there's more to sex..Yes that's true but Tang frequently and willing has a lot of appeal..even if her belly kinda rolls to the side and she ain't getting on top.
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Post by ferris1248 on Mar 25, 2024 19:06:10 GMT -5
No one wants to be old and not have a companion if they had a choice. There is more to life than just sex or how "hot" your significant other is when you are in your final quarter. That's just my opinion. If "dumpy" is a good person than I wouldn't trade her in for a younger gold digger unless you have plenty of gold to throw away. Good advice. |
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Post by richm on Mar 25, 2024 19:20:39 GMT -5
Sometimes we gotta look in the mirror in the morning to see what they are getting too.
Sit back and mull it over. Nice chick, seems to dig you, puts out, low maintenance, has money.
A lil overweight, but you’ve already been riding that moped…having fun?
Your call. Just take your time and think it thru.
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Post by tonyroma on Mar 25, 2024 19:34:56 GMT -5
Ask if she’s got a thinner sister.
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Post by wynnv on Mar 25, 2024 19:38:15 GMT -5
In my younger days my first answer would be run...but at our age walking fast is much safer. Second answer (the let her down easy answer) you are not ready for a committed relationship after 4 months. Third answer is you are just looking for friends with benefits. If she doesnt like that one and pauses and gives you that funny look..... run!!!!!!
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Post by PolarsStepdad on Mar 25, 2024 19:52:15 GMT -5
I don't know man that's a tough spot to be in. Your not exactly a 16 year old stud anymore yourself. As much as I would say to lower your expectations and not look the gift of forever companionship in the mouth. I think it's unfair to her that your just not really into her beyond closing time any port in the storm. If your seriously not attracted to her then there is no need to play her feelings for a piece of ass. You wouldn't like somebody doing it to your mom or granny and I'm sure her family doesn't want it done to her. She's not thinking of a fling you already know this. For whatever reason. At 46 if I had a woman like that, that was I to me like she is apparently you unless she was just an ugly beast of a heifer I think I'd be all in. But then I'm like Richard Prior. I'm in love with a bitch I can't stand.
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Post by gardawg on Mar 25, 2024 20:02:44 GMT -5
Tell her you'll commit to marriage if she'll commit to getting in healthier condition. Then run a boot camp on her fatass. You'll both feel better.  |
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Post by swampdog on Mar 25, 2024 20:50:37 GMT -5
If you’re sure, tell her you’re gay and can’t live a lie.😉
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Post by illinoisfisherman on Mar 25, 2024 20:54:58 GMT -5
Tell her you'll commit to marriage if she'll commit to getting in healthier condition. Then run a boot camp on her fatass. You'll both feel better. That might not be a good idea. It seems like the lady is wearing him out now. If she gets in better shape keeping up with her could be life threatening. Just kidding. 😜👍 |
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Post by biminitwisted on Mar 25, 2024 23:07:41 GMT -5
I guess you have to ask yourself are you okay with being alone if you tell her to cool it and she walks.
Sounds like she's beating down your door, but clearly you don't like the pressure of making a commitment right now, and on her terms.
Maybe explain to her that your a take it slow kind of person, and be honest with her by telling her your just not ready to put a ring on it right now. Probably worse to find yourself in a situation where your just not feeling the commitment she thinks you made.
Slow walk it, and be honest that slow walking it is the best way to get the real you, and not a pressured version who may have second thoughts.
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Post by GaryS on Mar 26, 2024 5:38:46 GMT -5
Man up and tell her there ain't no commitment. Your not asking anything from her she doesn't want and to not ask for anything your not willing to give to her. You might also tell her not to give any ultimatum she can't live with.
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